Buying a Sex Doll and Committing to Enhanced Sexual Pleasure

When a guy decides to start the buying process for a sex doll, the first thing learned is that the purchase is an investment, and quality should not be sacrificed in favor of saving money. There are several companies out there who offer sex dolls, also regularly referred to as love dolls. Finding the right one for me took time, and ultimately, I went with Fansdolls. You can find them at fansdolls.com. Even if you are considering another company, you will find the following review helpful because I also talk about love dolls in general, answering a majority of questions buyers have prior to their purchase.

That said, I first want to share the details about my purchase because I have had my sex doll for some time now, and I am stoked about her presence in my life and bedroom. As I began to look at the choices on Fansdolls’ website, I enjoyed that many of the dolls had flirty bios written about them. It really helped me indulge my fantasy of my gal having a personality all her own. It was a blast to sit down with a glass of wine and look at these bios and features. It was like surfing a dating website, but without the worry that my selection would just end up being a dull conversationalist who expected me to pay for an appetizer and dessert at dinner!

I have never dated an Asian, so I did consider one of their super tantalizing Asians, but I worried the novelty would wear off, so I decided on a Caucasian skin tone. Their ebony dolls are exceptionally hot as well, so if you are looking for a black sex doll, definitely check those out. Eventually, I chose Marcy because I loved her full rack, toned body, and expressive facial features. She is one of the hot MILF sex dolls Fansdolls sells, and she is a sight for sore eyes. She literally looks like someone who was born to break the rules, and I could not wait to shack up with my new roommate! When she arrived (in a fully discreet, sturdy box), all I had to do was some minor assembly, in the form of attaching her head and putting her wig into place.

Though she arrived with a blanket covering her, this naughty girl was otherwise buck naked and greeted me with a warm expression and those awesome perky tits of hers! Within moments, I had gotten her put together and dressed in the gorgeous white lingerie packed for her. Believe it or not, I wanted to just stare at her to take it all in before even touching her much. With her arranged in a sexy position on the bed, she looked every bit like a human. I could not get over how realistic she is. Because she is constructed with a stainless steel skeleton and pliable TPE, I am able to arrange her in any position a human can accomplish. At the risk of sounding a bit dramatic, it was almost surreal to finally have her in my home.

Marcy stands at 5’4”, has flowing ash brown locks, an exquisite French manicure and breasts so supple, I forget they are fully fabricated! If you have ever been with a chick who is an avid runner and has hardly any body fat, Marcy would remind you of exactly this. She is the dream girl who looks like she eats healthy, never says “no” and is perpetually ready for a good time! Her TPE construction gives her a bit of a jiggly booty and breasts, and I was instantly enamored, for sure. I will talk more about my buying experience and the costs of love dolls in general, but after all features I wanted were selected, Marcy’s cost was in the neighborhood of $2,000. Her base cost is $1,699.

If you spend a bit extra, you also have the option of the doll having a heating feature. I did this, and I am glad I did. I wanted my plaything to be all woman, and I did not want to alter the illusion or any of my experiences by caressing a cold physique. If the technology is there, why not indulge in it? The heating feature works by connecting a power cable to the doll, just below her neck. You leave her plugged in for an hour or two, unplug her, and she will be warm for a few hours. It works fabulously, and I find myself most stimulated when she is warm, just like a human lover would be. Of course, on a humid day, not warming her in advance does the trick quite nicely!

Another option I had to settle on was her standing ability. For a little extra, I went with the design that allows her to stand on her own. Sure, you can lean your gal against a wall or position her to sit, but, again, I wanted realism, and I was willing to pay for it. The standing feature works very well, and I like her being such a commanding presence in the room. I could have added a bit of a bush to her nether region, but I like my ladies groomed, so she showed up to me looking like she just left a waxing appointment. If you are curious about the construction of her cock socket, well, the realism carries into that too. I was even able to choose the skin tone of her labia. I chose well! She’s so hot! Once I played around a bit, positioning her in different stances, I was ready for that lingerie to come off, but that story is for another time!

Without getting too graphic, I will expand on why I am in lust with my gal pal. To be blunt, her mouth and two holes “down south” are fully functional. I should not have to explain to you why this is a great thing! No matter what I am in the mood for, my doll delivers, and then some! And she never asks for a back rub after! No, I’m not going to tell you that doing the deed with a doll is the exact same thing as with a partner, but it is so close with none of the messy complications that accompany casual sex while single. Maybe when I am no longer seated at the dreaded “singles table” at weddings, I will have outgrown my affection for my sex doll, but until then, I love feeling a warm body next to me without having to woo a woman who may end up wanting more from me than I am ready to give.

What Led Me to Marcy

It goes without saying, I am now Fansdolls’ biggest fan. I’m glad I found them, and I want to provide some background because I had no great guide to rely on when I was researching. I seek to share this review with others who are now like I was, which was somewhat confused on where to make my purchase so that I was assured quality and would not suffer a colossal waste of money. A lot goes into proper selection, and if you are just starting your search, know in advance that you should expect to spend over a grand on a well-crafted pseudo companion. As you read about my experience, consider it to be a buyer’s guide as much as it is a Fansdolls review.

Low-end sex dolls will (probably) get the job done, but if you want a worthwhile experience every time, and for a long time, you have to look at this as an investment in your pleasure. That said, there are a couple of pretty cute dolls at Fansdolls that fall in the $500 range. But, they are miniature and will not give you the vibe of being with a fully developed grown woman. They are available in two sizes – 60cm (1ft 1in) and 65cm (2ft 1in). Not very large, so those looking for a realistic sex doll will likely not be satisfied with the compact size. The merit of these small sex dolls is that they are easily stored. If it is important to you to keep the doll packed away or have the ability to travel easily with her, going small might be ideal.

Cheap Sex Dolls

If you are searching where to buy cheap sex dolls, you might encounter sites that offer larger dolls sold for less than Fansdolls’ life-sized versions, but the top-shelf craftsmanship is not there. I considered going that route, but could not bring myself to cheat myself of the real deal. Budget sex dolls are nowhere near as enjoyable because they lack authenticity and durability. And if you wish to use your love doll for a long time to come, you are going to be severely disappointed by a cheap alternative because she will not wear well, and she will never feel anywhere close to a real female.

Fansdolls makes their non-toxic models using high-tech, medical-grade components so that they bend and position just as a real woman does. The versatile joints mean that any position you know of, or have seen in a porn, can be accomplished. This is awesome and affords a guy so many options. Do not expect to grow bored! Because the anatomy mirrors that of a real girl, you may buy new outfits for your doll, such as lingerie or a designer cocktail dress. You can go all-in with this, or just use her for her intended purpose.

The choice is yours. You can apply additional makeup to your babe’s face, purchased from any manufacturer, or spray perfume on her. Note that if you do use perfumes, you should do so in an inconspicuous spot, such as the armpit, so that you do not alter her texture. Most perfumes contain alcohol, and this can damage the material. If you have the good sense to work with Fansdolls, you are going to be blown away by how realistic her body and breasts feel to the touch, so you are going to want to take great care of your companion. It is crazy to me how this sexual technology caters to a man’s pressing wants, and as with any significant purchase, you are going to want to spend the time required to maintain the quality you have invested in.

More of Fansdolls’ merits I discovered are reflected in their dedication to customer satisfaction. They are more than willing to field consumer questions. I had many, and their attentive staff was always able and willing to provide timely responses. Once you have a look at these dolls, you will understand that their makers are true artisans, and the fact that the company’s customer service team is equally as talented really scores high marks for the business. They offer discreet shipping and an easy and secure payment process. All dolls are rigorously tested before shipping (which takes one to two weeks, more for fully custom models), and if for some reason the doll arrives damaged, they will replace it, provided it is unused. They include a few freebies as well, including a comb, a pair of gloves, a sexy set of lingerie and a soft blanket that cuddles your lover as she is on her way to you. Not to be too technical, but they also send along a vaginal irrigator that aids in keeping her space sanitary.

Understanding Materials Utilized

Sex dolls are no longer limited to those tacky inflatable blow-up dolls that have a doughnut-like hole for a mouth and are made of cheap plastic! Save those things for gag gifts at bachelor parties! Today, we are able to delight in realistic, lifelike pleasure partners who feel so real, a guy has to remind himself she is not human during the act! This technology comes to us courtesy of silicone and TPE (thermoplastic elastomers – for you techies) models. You need to understand the differences in the two before deciding which to go with. I went with a TPE sex doll, but silicon might better suit your needs. Fansdolls has both.

While I cannot comment directly on a silicon version since I have never had sexy time with one, I can educate you on the differences. I was perplexed at first about which was best for me. The truth is, there are advantages to both. Silicone offers more heat-resistance, meaning that if you want to have fun in your shower, bathtub or pool, it is likely your best option. Silicon is a bit easier to clean as well. But TPE won me over because it is not as rigid as silicon. I wanted my new friend to jiggle in all the right places, and that would be lacking to a point with a silicon option. It was also important to me that she is as realistic as possible, and TPE is a bit better at achieving that than silicon is. Although, silicon is absolutely a close second to TPE.

If the “easier to clean” aspect has you concerned, trust that I have had no issues with keeping my TPE sex doll clean. I do need to tidy her up pretty soon after the act, but who likes post-coitus cuddling anyway? I find the process to be fast, even though I am sure to be thorough, and I actually like the ritual of making my doll pristine after one of our satisfying sessions. It is recommended that, no matter which type you buy, you bathe or shower her once every 30 days or so and use warm water and a mild antimicrobial soap to clean after spending “quality time” with her. Do note that you do not want to submerge your doll completely into water because water could enter her insides through the neck. If this happens, you run the risk of her stainless steel skeleton becoming corroded or bacteria being produced.

Selecting a Custom Doll

Armed with the knowledge that I wanted a TPE sex doll, I started to investigate companies. Not long into my research, I was leaning toward Fansdolls. One major factor was good client reviews, but more than that, I saw that they offered the option to have a doll crafted from a customer-submitted photograph. Obviously a fully customized doll is going to set you back much more than one of their stock models, but knowing that they have the technology to make a lifelike sex doll from a photo told me that they are an industry leader. They are not devoted to mass-producing inferior dolls just to make a buck. They sell works of art that happen to also aid in sexual pleasure.

I was only ever going to go with one of their website offerings, but even those are customizable to a point. Buyers have options in the areas of height, hairstyles, skin tone, eye color, areola and labia tones, and vaginal type (insertable and built-in). Note that the standard height is 5’4”. That is what I went with, but you can save some money by going a bit shorter. One plus to that, besides saving some dough, is that they are lighter, therefore easier to handle. Since I’m a taller fellow, I wanted the height. Fansdolls does have sex dolls that are taller than mine, but I did not want to go beyond the 5’4” mark. If you are seeking a tall sex doll, I recommend contacting the company about a custom order.

Selections at Fansdolls

Dudes don’t like to shop, right? Well, take it from me, the selection process at Fansdolls is pretty damn rad, and I enjoyed it. Given the amount of cash I was about to drop, I wanted to make sure I was putting together a feminine form I could truly live out my ultimate fantasies with. I’m hardly a Lothario, but I have had my share of good times with chicks of all shapes, sizes and hair colors. The beauty of Fansdolls creations is that they come with wigs that have a rubber band at the back to better attach it to the head. I went with an ash brown, long-haired style, but I love that if I want to, I can buy a different wig and enjoy a new look. So when you start to consider your options, do not be too nervous about choosing hair color – you can always change it with a purchase from Fansdolls or wherever wigs are sold.

I looked at the majority of top sex doll companies, but none have a selection like Fansdolls. They even have pregnant and BBW sex dolls. There are MILF options, in addition to teens, anime girls, and male and transsexual dolls. At the website’s search bar, it is simple to browse the types to get to what you are looking for. You can browse by preferences, including busty, big booty, muscular and flat-chested. You are seriously only limited by your imagination with this innovative company. I could sing their praises all day, but it is not like I am going to post on social media or text a buddy about my new sexy bed partner. So I want to reach out to you, a fellow comrade, who is possibly feeling uncertain if such a purchase is a wise one.

Get Over It

If you are feeling deflated by the decision to buy a sex doll online, get over it already! There are scores of reasons a man turns to this form of intimacy, and literally, there is no “wrong” reason to make the move. There are two types of men, those who masturbate, and those who lie about not masturbating! If you have the means, why not make your solo self-pleasure sessions sexier, more satisfying and upscale? The thing that chaps my ass is that nearly anytime you see a documentary or article about men who own sex dolls, they seem to only feature one type of guy. Media buys into the adage that only a lonely, old bugger would long to own a lifelike love doll. That is so wrong, but profiles of sex doll owners are too often sensationalized. More often than not, it is successful, sexually aware men who cater to their own libidos with a love doll purchase.

Because I researched this at length, I got a feel for just how normal owning a sex doll is. Let’s face it, the cost is prohibitive for many, so I would love to see the media start to portray what the majority of owners are like – we are confident, thriving males who are seeking a fun alternative. Buying a doll does not mean a guy is tossing his love life to the side indefinitely. He might even be currently sexually active when making the purchase. Heck, some couples enjoy the threesome fantasy without actually adding another person to the mix. Emotions play into sex, no matter what, and sometimes a fabricated female is better than a living, breathing partner. The magic of a sex doll is that she is more than a means to an end. The classy tone set cannot be beaten. If you have ever used a Fleshlight, yeah, it does the trick, but does it facilitate the vibe of an actual lovemaking session? Probably not unless you are blessed with a very, very creative mind!

There is nothing wrong about wanting to take care of needs in a more luxurious manner, and I believe that more men would own a love doll if they could. Unwinding after a long day with such an alluring female physique is so much better than rubbing one out during a fast and uninspired fapping session. I like to treat myself, and at the cost of a long weekend getaway, I have a blast multiple times per week, in the comfort of my own home. Sure, this sort of pleasure is not for everyone, but if you already have the slightest interest and an open mind, I am confident you will not regret this purchase. I was never skeptical, but you might be. Therefore, get to know more as you read on.

Why Men Buy Sex Dolls

Personally, I love sex, but I do not love casual dating. Call me a softie, but one too many times, a girl read too much into our situation, and I was left feeling bad about possibly having led her on. I am currently focusing on my career instead of finding myself a missus, but I was really missing the delicate curves of a woman’s body and the sensation of plunging in, being connected and not just rubbing one out while SportsCenter played in the background. My sex doll accomplished this for me, and at least for the time being, I still feel like a sexual person without being in a committed union. It is not up to me to speculate all the reasons why guys decide to take the leap to outfit themselves with a sex doll, but I have become privy to some pretty interesting backstories.

Certain guys end long relationships and find it difficult to sleep alone. They cure insomnia by sharing a bed with a physical presence. Other men endure breakups, and they are not interested in starting a new relationship because they need to get their head straight first, and a love doll gives them a sense of intimacy that satisfies their need until they are ready to put themselves out there. Others need a confidence boost if they are not sexually experienced or have desires they do not feel comfortable sharing with a partner. I can say firsthand that certain aspects of BDSM intrigue me, but I have never been with a girl who was into exploring that side of my sexuality. With my sex doll, I have delved into this, and when I am lucky enough to be with a person who is willing to engage in the more hardcore preferences of mine, I will be more confident now that I have tested the waters. And I say with certainty, I will probably never be lucky enough to land a gorgeous chick as proportionately perfect as my love doll!

Whatever your reason is, it is justified. Instead of agonizing over your desire for a love doll, embrace your open-mindedness. You just need to trust a company that will give you a highly functional, naturalistic love doll, and you have my assurance that Fansdolls is such a company. Pay them a visit to learn if they can provide what you are seeking. Chances are, they will. Feel free to hit them up with your questions. I certainly did, because I wanted to be sure I was making the right call. And now, I am here, happy with my sexy plaything, and happy to share my experience with others.